1. In a one week period of time, I recorded 86 new media interactions. These are the five people I interacted with the most:
- Candace: 13 (best friend at college, strong tie, lives in my building)
- Yacine: 11 (best friend for 5 years, strong tie, lives in TX)
- Dvorit: 8 (close friend at college, strong tie, lives in building)
- Erin: 8 (best friend since high school, strong tie, lives in NYC)
- Parents: 8 (my parents, strong tie, live in Romania)


By Media type, these are the individuals I interacted with the most:
Cell:
- Yacine: 9
- Erin: 5
- Candace: 4
- Kirsten: 3
- (for fifth place, multiple tied for 2)
SMS:
- Dvorit: 2
- Yacine: 1
Email:
- Dvorit: 3
- Josh: 3
- Erin: 2
- Noah: 2
- Marketing group: 2
Instant Messenger:
- Candace: 9
- Laura K: 2
- Parents: 2
- Nancy: 1
- Kirsten: 1
Skype:
- Parents: 4
Facebook Messaging:
- Dvorit: 1
- Jasmine: 1
- Cristina: 1
There seems to be a relationship between the medium use to interact with others and different tie variables.
In the cell phone category, 4/5 are strong ties which I have known for longer than one year, and consider to be close friends. Looking at my list of interactions, I have also noticed that cell phone use was primarily linked to both emotional aid and companionship, but was also used for job and club information, as well as small service and financial aid. Within this group of strong ties, they are all considered to be close friends, which explains why I considered them to be strong ties. Also, I have known each of them of several years. When looking at distance, two are considered long distance (one in TX, one in NY), and the rest are close ties located on campus, two of which are in my dorm building, and the other is a high-rise located a couple of minutes away. Even though they live in the building, I think I use the cell-phone to contact these individuals when I think they may be out of the building and don’t want to try their room. Four out of five individuals are female, which is a pattern I can generalize across my social network, since most of my friends are female. The one tie that is male is someone I dated for five years. All the individuals are between 21-23, and are very close in age to me, which I can attribute to the fact that we are the same year in college, or I met them in high-school.
For SMS, the two individuals I used this means of communication are strong ties, which I have known for at least three years. However, it is important to note that SMS use in general was very limited, and in one week, contacted only two people with it, which might show that I only deem SMSing a communication option when I have something short and punctual to send to someone I know well. The support exchanged in this mean is companionship (twice with Dvorit) and emotional aid with Yacine. There seemed to be no relationship with distance or gender, since one person was local, one long distance, and gender was split.
Email was a medium that was a lot more spread out. Although I seem to be checking my email constantly, it appears that I don’t write very many emails, and only respond if I really need do. Email is the method of communication I use in order to contact strong, moderate, and weak ties. I used it primarily for academic resources, club information, and job information. Although the majority of people I contacted are in college and are the same age and occupation (student), I was in contact with several people who are in the academic (my professors) or business (my jobs/future jobs) spheres. I noticed that, almost exclusively, I use email to contact these people, primarily since I am trying to be formal (thus, avoid cell phone, SMS, or IM), succinct, and do not have a strong tie with them. When looking at my email usage, I also noticed that this was the most diverse group of contact I had, and ranged from the ages of 20 to over 40, in different fields (both students, professors, and businesspeople). I used email to communicate with both males and females, and did so with individuals who lived on campus or in other states (most for job related purposes).
Instant messaging was a new medium that I used with people who lived near me, and were strong to medium ties. I used instant messaging for emotional aid, companionship, and in one case, small services. The people I spoke where all female and were students at Penn (same age, status), except for my parents who used this as a means of checking up on me and quickly telling me something. My parents were the only people who lived far away, and everyone else lived on campus. I was surprised that I spoke with a very close tie (Candace) so much over instant messaging, since we live in the same building, and see each other often. Most of the correspondences that took place were simple questions, jokes, or things we forgot to mention.
Skype was used exclusively with my parents, who live in Romania. We chose to speak on this medium since it is free, and we can thus avoid the expensive long-distance expenses associated with speaking. We are also very close (we speak at least once a day), so having a product like Skype allows us to maintain our relationship without worrying about racking up a big bill. And, since they are my parents, they are older than I am (over 50), male and female, and I consider them very strong ties. Additionally, the means of support offered through Skype were emotional aid and companionship.
Lastly, I used Facebook as a means of communication with both strong and weak ties, all of whom are affiliated with Penn (either current students or alumni). I used Facebook with three females who are either 21 or 23. The two girls who are strong ties I have known for over two years, and Jasmine is someone I met last year and currently lives in NY. Another person is on campus (in my building), and another currently lives in Kansas.
Almost exclusively, my new media interactions took place in the home or at work (which is located in my dorm building). I can attribute this to the fact that I often used email, instant messaging, Skype, and Facebook and need access to a computer with internet access in order to do so. Also, since I don’t have a working landline, I use my cell phone to talk when I am at home, and generally like to speak when I have information in front of me, or can actually hear the person on the other end, which is not always possible talking from the street. I also never used any means of communication while in class or at a friend’s house, since nothing I needed to communicate ever felt that urgent. Also, when I am away from my home is when I am enjoying leisure time, and is typically with my friends, which eliminates my need to communicate with them on another medium. When I communicated at work, I often used instant messaging and email, since talking on the phone is not regarded favorable. To people with whom I communicated outside my home were typically friends I was calling when they were late, or if I was unsure about where to meet them.
Based on the semester’s readings, I find that my findings generally agree with the literature we have reviewed this semester.
When reviewing my ties and seeing where they are located, the fact that most are in college and live so close to me indicates that I have a personal community. In “The Network Community”, Barry Wellman describes that community can be defined as “interpersonal networks that provide sociability, social support, and social capital to a member” (Wellman, p. 13), and as my usage shows, I use the same network of people in the area to provide me with valuable social support and sociability. Also, he states that community ties are narrow, specialized relationships, but have the potential to be broad and diverse (Wellman, p. 24).
One area of my results that significantly correlated with the course readings included the discussion of homophily. In some regard, I am very homophilous with the top five people I corresponded with. I attend the same university as some, am the same gender as the majority, often spend time together, and involved in the same organizations, or am related to them. In McPherson’s article on homophily, he notes that “homophily is the principle that a contact between similar people occurs at higher rate than among dissimilar people”, and my results support this definition, since those I was most similar to are the ones I communicated with the most. Along with age, gender, and location (for some), I am also homophilous with some people due to our shared educational status as students at Penn.
The fact that I received so much emotional aid and companionship resources from strong ties conforms Wellman and Wortley’s claim in “Different Strokes from Different Folks”. Although parents are often best for large services and financial aid, I did not require any during that week that allowed them to offer me that resource.
Another very important finding that these results delivered is that they notified me of who I can consider my core discussion group. In “Social Isolation in America”, McPherson states that people’s strong ties have declined, yet I noticed that I had five people who I could sincerely rely on to discuss personal matters with or provide me with supportive resources, which contradicts his finding. However, this can be attributed to the face that I am in highly social environment, which encourages discussion across various fields. Also, my new media use could explain this finding, since I use cell phone, instant messaging, and Skype to strengthen my relationships.
Lastly, the effect of new media on maintaining my friendships has been a fact that our class has discussed frequently. In the Facebook paper, the author noted that facebook helps bridge and broaden, and bond existing social networks, which I found to be true. The use of the internet has also played a significant role in my life and the way I communicate with others, as affirmed by Hampton and Wellman in “Neighboring in Netville”.
Overall, when I look back at my patterns of usage, I am little bit surprised that I noted so few (in my view) interactions. In my room, on a break from class, or at work, I feel I am constantly interaction with new media, particularly email. But as I skimmed through my sent folder, I noticed that I only reply to those that are pressing, and don’t often participate in an email listserve unless I absolutely have to. I am particularly surprised about my interactions since I am a member of many groups and hold various positions on campus, but same thing: I only contact people if they or I need to speak urgently. Maybe that’s not the best route to follow. Also, this week had some unintended distractions that prevented me from using new media. On Thursday and Friday, I had a two day Job Offer Exploration Day, where I was with future work colleagues, and was not available to return calls or check my email. Also, my patterns of communication do change periodically; for instance, when one of my groups holds an event, I am a lot more active on new media to help prepare.
Even though my cell phone interaction is also low, I predicted that because I am more likely to receive calls then call out myself. A number of my close friends live on campus, so I feel that a lot of my day-to-day interactions take place in good ol’ face-to-face. I am often around people, or in meetings, or in class, and I think the bulk of my socialization occurs in those arenas. Also, I am not a big fan of instant messaging people unless I am desperately bored (which might explain why so much instant messaging went on while at work) or have something time-important for work. I think that my decreased new media usage is also attributed to the fact that most of my meetings, my job, and my position as an RA all take place in Harrison, which is also where two close friends live, thus, I am able to take care of most communication matters in person. It would be interesting to see next year, when my friends and I are all spread out, how much new media I use. Also, I was a little miffed at my lack of high school social capital. Although I am an avid (maybe a little too avid) user of Facebook, I did not see it as a way of necessarily communicating with those from high school, but rather as a means of seeing how they’re doing.